RnT etiquette

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perthsubby

Hi all,

Well, i was reading an article on etiquette when visiting an escort, and the article had some interesting question and answers which i figured would be good to get some feedback on from other members in here. The questions were sent in to the magazine by im guessing various readers. I have kinda paraphrased the questions.

1. When entering the "massage room" and being told to undress, is it "wrong" or "inappropriate" to immediately have an erection.

2. If visiting a lady what is the etiquette if you enjoy things such as, wearing a blind fold during the session, if your wanting to use your own specific massage oil etc.

3. Is it inappropriate to wear or use certain items on yourself during the sessions. The article listed things like a butt plug (i.e. insert it, and wear it before and during the session) if this is part of your normal routine.

4. When is it appropriate to touch the lady/male giving the service. Should you ask before hand, and are there areas which are no goers.

5. If your a crossdresser does this make any difference for the lady and must you inform the lady prior to the sessions. Is it wrong to want to wear at least some of your clothing during the session.
 

svengali

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Simple answer to all of the above is to ask the lady beforehand and lay out the groundrules for the encounter before entering the room. In particular I wouldn't just spring a crossdresser with a butplug on her without warning. Even if she is broadminded that may be a bit much.

Most rub 'n tug ladies are up for a bit of reciprocal touching and some will even allow you to bring them off manually or even orally but, again, ask first.

As to an erection - anyone who owns a dick would know they have a mind of their own and I am sure the lady wouldn't be put out unless she was a "serious" trained masseuse rather than a rub 'n tug girl
 
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