Racial discrimination from sex workers.

[Dallas]

Hi Dallas…
To be honest, Irish guys really scares me as they just come to see us when they r blinding drunk, they want to do everything whats not allowed on a chat earlier (fingers in , no anal or fingers in that hole…).
Also they r very rough and hurts us a lot!!!! Once I said to a Irish client who was trying to do all above and more: "Easy cowboy!!! Im not a cow, Im a human being and u r fucking hurting me… "

Hi Gabriella,
Your experience seems quite common. I was in the lounge late one night and there was a lady I was talking to who was visibly upset because of a bad experience she'd had the night before with an Irish guy, then there were two bad mouthing her and me while I was talking to her. I ended up booking her just so they couldn't. One guy said to me that he'd do me if the lady wasn't up for it. I don't blame you for being scared of them!!

 

[Gabriella Reis]

Hi Gabriella,
Your experience seems quite common. I was in the lounge late one night and there was a lady I was talking to who was visibly upset because of a bad experience she'd had the night before with an Irish guy, then there were two bad mouthing her and me while I was talking to her. I ended up booking her just so they couldn't. One guy said to me that he'd do me if the lady wasn't up for it. I don't blame you for being scared of them!!

Hi Dallas….

I know theres an exception in any rules… As I had once a double with 2 Irish guys (2guys 1girl) .. They were friends and both off them wanted to book me… I took both of them to the room and our 1,5hr there was fantastic… They were a very nice guys and very respectful…

Also I had one over 40yo Irish who was amazing too…

As I had a few great Indian clients too…. But I had heaps of bad experience with them tho…

When u have more bad experiences than good ones then u start to generalise it….

 

[Gabriella Reis]

Could it be that they are intimidated. Not to say you are trying to intimidate them. But I know that many of them are easily intimidated.

Nope… They looked at me disgusted because Im more mature, curve and not a 19yo skin and bones white girl…..
I know when ppl r intimidated by me or disgusted… They def was disgusted…

 

[Dallas]

Hi Dallas….

I know theres an exception in any rules… As I had once a double with 2 Irish guys (2guys 1girl) .. They were friends and both off them wanted to book me… I took both of them to the room and our 1,5hr there was fantastic… They were a very nice guys and very respectful…

Also I had one over 40yo Irish who was amazing too…

As I had a few great Indian clients too…. But I had heaps of bad experience with them tho…

When u have more bad experiences than good ones then u start to generalise it….

That's very true Gabriella, yes I was generalising. I've been told by an Irish w/l who said that the Irish guys back home were fine, it was just the ones in Perth that seemed disrespectful. Oh yes she said the same thing about the Indian guys too. Don't know what's going on there. But yes, there's good and bad in any group!.

The double sounded great, that's on my wish list for one day

 

[Obbie]

Wow ....Tony must be the new superhero ... he is responsible for the current generation of immigrants? ... after five months in Govt? ... I hope he can fix the economy as quick!!

I say this with no disrespect.........and I invite you to not point and fire labels at people like this. Your world will shift [/quote]
Maybe he could make punting a tax deduction not sure what we could claim it under but he would get my vote

 

[johnlou]

I say this with no disrespect.........and I invite you to not point and fire labels at people like this. Your world will shift

Maybe he could make punting a tax deduction not sure what we could claim it under but he would get my vote [/quote]
entertainment or health fund

 

[rankin]

Gotta love this type of lead-in ...."I say this with no disrespect".... a bit like "I'm not a racist, but...."

 

[Happy2]

Yes Rankin Its like a junior officer saying to a Colonel "Sir , With the utmost respect I must say...." You know he is going to tell him

 

[Miss Chloe]

[quote="Miss Holly, post: 242728, some think it's sexy to lick a woman from head to toe to navel to armpit to inner-ear;

maybe your 'different"

but im yet to meet a lady who doesnt really and i men really
enjoy this

Well I'm definitely different then! I can very honestly say I DO NOT like it. At all. And I have met many ladies (working and not) that don't like it either.

Of course some women will enjoy this, there is no right or wrong here. Just personal taste.

Or maybe you are being sarcastic, or I have read it wrong? Are you actually saying that you are yet to meet a lady that does like it?

 

[Dallas]

Well I'm definitely different then! I can very honestly say I DO NOT like it. At all. And I have met many ladies (working and not) that don't like it either.

Of course some women will enjoy this, there is no right or wrong here. Just personal taste.

Or maybe you are being sarcastic, or I have read it wrong? Are you actually saying that you are yet to meet a lady that does like it?

I've met ladies that do and don't like pretty much any thing you can imagine so I can understand and agree with your point of view! For instance I've met working ladies that have said they don't like being touched down below then I met one once who loved it so much she got me to fist her. Another lady I saw wanted sex for hours, then another only wanted to talk - seriously! most expensive chat I've ever had! I always respect my partners needs even if I'm paying. People have their extremes of likes and dislikes. I like it actually it's why I never have a preconceived idea about what I want before seeing a lady. She'll make it clear what she does or doesn't want. If I enjoy it I'll see her again and for longer and if not I won't but I never assume

 

[Miss Chloe]

I've met ladies that do and don't like pretty much any thing you can imagine so I can understand and agree with your point of view! For instance I've met working ladies that have said they don't like being touched down below then I met one once who loved it so much she got me to fist her. Another lady I saw wanted sex for hours, then another only wanted to talk - seriously! most expensive chat I've ever had! I always respect my partners needs even if I'm paying. People have their extremes of likes and dislikes. I like it actually it's why I never have a preconceived idea about what I want before seeing a lady. She'll make it clear what she does or doesn't want. If I enjoy it I'll see her again and for longer and if not I won't but I never assume

You are so right Dallas. Everyone is different and we should try to be as accommodating as we can of each other

 

[EmilyDarke]

I guess I am guilty of discrimination when seeing clients, but then again, aren't clients when picking a lady?
When they say they prefer a certain nationality/age/size etc
I don't take offense as everyone has thier personal preferences.

Personally I will not see African men as I was gang- molested (not sure if that's a real term but I was sexually attacked but not raped) by a group of African men when I was 15. I in no way think this means all African men are like this but it brings back the memories and means I would not provide the client a top service.
Unfortunately most nationalities seem to have a stereotype in the industry, eg many WLs won't see Irish men as they are often very drunk crude and rough, the WL would rather go without the $$ than have the possibility (or probablity) of the booking going south.

 

[Brontee]

Like some of the other girls already pointed it out, I don't look at ethnicity or age either, as long as the are 'clean'. I have heard of girls that have their preferences, but to me it is money at the end of the day. But it also works both ways. Some men prefer Australians or Asians and might not see me because I am Dutch, too tall and too blonde ;-) Brontee XXX

 

[Dallas]

Like some of the other girls already pointed it out, I don't look at ethnicity or age either, as long as the are 'clean'. I have heard of girls that have their preferences, but to me it is money at the end of the day. But it also works both ways. Some men prefer Australians or Asians and might not see me because I am Dutch, too tall and too blonde ;-) Brontee XXX

You're right, Dutch, Tall, Blonde..what a combination... I'm running away now..... from my place all the way to Langtrees!!

 

[Brontee]

Hahaha, thank you Dallas!

 

[Lingham]

A tall, Dutch, blonde, Bronte, would act like a magnet to a lot of guys I know.

 

[HappyPirate]

Ahoy I agree, I am interested, I luv Dutch, Tall and Blonde
Cheers and Pass the Rum

 

[Lingham]

I've been with a few Dutch girls and I have to say that they were a lot of fun.

 

[Raye@Langtrees]

Wow...lots of deep, and moving interpretations of discrimination , where it has had a personal impact on today's multi cultural Nationalities. This so called oldest profession on Earth, has lost a lot of the magic it once had....but sadly with
progress comes change.

 

[Raye@Langtrees]

You are so right Dallas. Everyone is different and we should try to be as accommodating as we can of each other

Your so lovely with this comment MissPaige,
Unfortunately, it won't happen. It is what it is,
Sometimes with moments like these
Maybe I should share and write a thread on
Yesterday's Sex Industry , so
All the precious ladies, such as yourself
Can see how it once was.


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[Diamond Star]

here's something different ,as an African girl i refuse to see African clients sometimes as its too close to home,guess i'm just too scared, other than that if you're clean and speak clear english, then i suppose we're all human and moneys a motive ,diamond

 

[borkagork]

The first few times I punted (and any future punts I may try and have) I have always mentioned that I am asian. Born overseas and moved to Perth when I was 4. I have no accent at all (only when I'm on the phone to family for some reason), but I always let the WL know that I am of asian descent. If she has any issues with that she can let me know and less time is wasted. Luckily for me though, I haven't had any rejections.

 

[Adrianna Lush]

Most girls don't discriminate. However every girl wants someone to have some sort of connection with given that hey are about to be intimate with them.

 

[Diamond Star]

Discrimination at work lol ? I'm pretty sure .if you have a clean D**** and money .you'll be sweet lol

D.x

 

[nightrider]

Studying threads on this forum has brought to my attention to the fact that some punters are experiencing racial discrimination from sex workers.

Speaking to working ladies overall the years as well as having seen private escort profiles I have seen and heard how some working ladies only accept business from causasian clients. Or they specify certain ethnicities they do not wish to see. Most typically Indians and asians.

I would like to open up a discussion on this thread and invite punters, sex workers, as well as receptionists to give their point of view on this topic.

To start of with I would like to direct a question to a couple of forum members based on threads I have come across where they voiced about this. Of course they are not obliged to answer.

Honestman and Sunyun, do you feel that you have ever been treated differently from sex workers that has given you a negative experience?

A WL has sex and/or other intimate acts with her customers. She does not have to service every punter that turns up with the money and a hardon.

She can choose who she wants to service the same way we all make our choices, from past experience, so what is wrong with her choosing not to service a particular, type, age, race, intoxication, attitude of customer?

Are you suggesting every customer with the required $$ has the right to get service from a WL automatically? Really…………….

 

[DickieWu]

I don't think there is "right" or "wrong".

Just like any other professional business -

Seller is putting up a service for sale (with conditions apply) - Buyer should read the "fine print" of the service before buying.

As long as the "fine print" is somewhere on the ad and buyer is made aware of it before the deal, I would think it is fair.

Often is the last minute "hidden" conditions that causing issues between the seller and buyer.

 

[svengali]

Here is the Svengali take on racism:

We all know that there are some people of all races who, for various reasons, usually ignorance, are suspicious or afraid of those who are different. Anyone who is black, Asiatic, Albino, visibly scarred or otherwise handicapped has experienced this in some form or other. It may be done openly or may be just a quick, startled flash of emotion on first meeting but they are treated differently and they notice this. Hell, they have lived with it and seen it often enough so their "radar" is finely tuned to it.

Now, after the initial shock the "normal, decent" person will recover his/her composure quickly and establish one on one normal relations quickly, even apologise if they see they have caused hurt. The arrogant or bigoted will not and that is the difference.

All too often, however, the "racist" tag is applied willy nilly to decent people who may have had no more than a normal reaction to something which has nothing at all to do with race. For instance think about Gabriella's experience with the drunken Irishman. Had he been Aboriginal or Asiatic and been refused service in a bar I bet it would have made the papers "Racist Barman Refuses Indigenous/Foreign Client". This is unfair because it was not racism, just a normal reaction to obnoxious behavior

 

[BigBlackCock]

i don't see a problem with ladies being a little picky on who they want to have sex with even when you offer money for the privilege.the lady needs to be comfortable and feel safe @ all times , so that she can give her best service to the client ( VFM ) the lady does need return business to continue
some punters are violent , drunk and or drugged , why would anyone want to associate with them , i for 1 would not .

Just joined this site today and happy to share my opinion. I'm of African decent and not oblivious to the fact that WLs have the prerogative to choose who they service. But to refuse to serve a client because he/she comes from a different race is very demeaning and depressing so to say you have experienced a violent or drunk from a particular race so they are all like that is like saying a poor service should be attributed to all WLs. One on late, I sent a text to a private Asian place near the Cannington station, categorically told them I was black and well hung so they knew what was coming. When I got to the door and knocked, it took about 5 minutes for one of the girls to tell me I cannot be shagged because I'm black. Like seriously? After driving and waiting for about an hour? I'm a professional and a manager in a mining firm so I left without even saying a word. It was more depressing than calling employees to tell them they've been fired.

 

[Vivienne]

well obviously a persons culture is going to affect how they express themselves in the bedroom.

 

[Vivienne]

agree here im not sure how many WL prefer to see 25 yo studs with chisseled abs
but Im a great believer if you put some effort in your more than likely to get it back

course it doesnt always work but some ladys are just duds

as i always say if nothing else greeting a lady at the front door when im freshly showered nice pants, dress shirt, decnt watch and dress shoes and ive got a neat and tidy place

- makes me feel good

25 year olds with chiseled abs oh god that s

For me this isn't an issue of race, but of culture. Each and every culture views sex and the treatment of women differently, so it's inevitable that there will be differences in the ways that punters enjoy sex and treat working girls.

It's dangerous to paint everybody as the same, however I think it's important to recognise that stereotypes arise after trends have formed -- they're not simply invented overnight. From my experience it's true that certain cultures have different ideas about what standard of hygiene is acceptable; some fetishise anal sex; some are reserved; some think it's sexy to lick a woman from head to toe to navel to armpit to inner-ear; and some respect "no," while it doesn't seem to be in others' vocabularies. A friend of mine once said, "if I spent time with 10 German Shepherds and 8 of them bit me, could you blame me for being wary of them?" (Not that I mean to compare punters with animals, haha.)

I have to agree with most of what's already been said. Nobody should fall victim to discrimination provided that they're clean and respectful, but it is the lady's choice overall.

well put Holly xx