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cutensexy

there are a number of big, beautiful women in the forum and my question is....do men/women prefer their lady to have some substance to their body as opposed to the thin, athletic built woman??? i know we are all beautiful in our own way, but just curious as to the preferences we have today??
 
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Melb_Guy

I think it is more important to make a connection mentally rather than go on looks or size alone
 
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cutensexy

that is true, but as we know the magazines and models etc market the waif thin body as being the ultimate (which i think is wrong) and not much emphasis is placed on the larger form wether it be male or female and i wonder if that plays a part for men/women visually and physically. i know people who have a preference for the slim, toned body and also others who prefer their partner to have a bit of meat on them...they find that more attractive.
i dont believe that you can survive on the mental connection of someone without having some form of physical chemistry there as well...am i wrong to think that way???
 
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Melb_Guy

I agree with you. The general perception set out by the media is that all people should look like models. Well from my side I don't compete against a well toned young stripper or model. It is important to look at the real world and see what real people look like and treat all equally. Attraction is both physical and mental, sometimes it only takes one to see things move forward
 
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cutensexy

well said melb! we are all different but all beautiful inside.
 
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Melb_Guy

Our bodies are just a cover of what is inside. I was just reading a message in another convesation here and it always makes me laugh when men have the mentality to think size matters. I think you know the string im talking about. We are all born with different attributes and it is how we use them that should always be taken into consideration. It takes work and not just hey look at what Ive got to have fun. As I said in a previous message Im not you stereo typical male that you see on the telly, so I have to use other skills and sometimes it is very hard work to make up for that. With that enjoying the conversation as not much else for me to do today so Im sitting here watching with interest :)
 
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cutensexy

the comment that was made was totally uncalled for. he has had the decency to apologise however, am i correct in stating that it is a delicate subject for males???? the comment made directly after he posted that was from my partner and having known him as long as i have i know it would have hurt, we all have insecurities about various things but i dont see the need to aggravate them. as you have agreed its not what you have got its the knowledge behind it that matters.

i think i may have some support on that one later on today??? (i hope!!)
 
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Melb_Guy

I would like some support later this afternoon too, but thats another line of conversation :)

It is difficult when we are attacked for what the general public might percive to be shortcommings. But the whole debate about size etc becomes irrelvant when it is the connection and how that connection is used and the skills that are used, tried and possibly enjoyed. I myself have to work a little harder to get the results but I have found that it intesifies the experience. I think that some guys have watched too many pornos but with age it can be discovered that not all women are like, or want what is seen in the movies. Welcome to the real world :happy6:
 
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cutensexy

yes siree!!!

why so shy melb.....u seem to have a low opinion of yourself...why??
 
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Melb_Guy

Good question, dont know really. I guess Im on the road so much it is very hard to meet people. I spend a great deal of time ensuring that my clients get the best possible service and that sometimes leaves me drained. In one of my other posts I talked about the need for a stronger lady. I have always had to do the chasing, and im tired, I would love to find a Lady who knows how to take control instead of me taking control. I would look after her if she let me know, and let me know what she wants if that all makes sense.
 
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cutensexy

yes i understand.

but as they say, opportunities dont just come to you, sometimes you have to step outside the square, maybe thats why going to the club may be a good idea for you.....everyone is the same, all there for the same reason, and who knows....when you least expect it...........?
as i mentioned previously, i pursued my man which for me was completely out of left field......normally its the other way round....but i figured if i dont someone else will.

why dont you give the club a go, we would be happy to meet with you?
 
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Melb_Guy

Was at the club both Friday and Saturday night, spent Friday night, which was very quiet in some interesting conversations, and last night, well lets just say Friday was a better night. Hence my thoughts of putting out the invite for this afternoon/evening but thats not looking too flash. Is this where the term desparate and dateless comes from :)

Would love to have meet you both at the club but alas I leave on Friday but on the up side I will be back in about 6 weeks or so depending on my clients needs.
 
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cutensexy

was there many in on saturday......i know you said friday was quiet.
im sure we will run into each other at some point...in the interim feel free to chat anytime.
 
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Melb_Guy

There was more there last night than Friday, but it appeared that a majority were couples. I spent the night observing, but had a better night Friday with more conversation. Thank-you for the chat and I will take you up on that offer, dosent look like a response to the other post so I guess it will going out and booking a table for one again :(
 
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lickedysplit

Apparantly men and women see bodies differently...femaes are visual creatures..we look and like or dislike...men like to feel...although we might find our bodys bumpy here or cuddly there, they love to feel that.....soft feels good....
After working in the sex industry for 5 years i have found that men are 50/50 for small or big...personality and sex appeal go along way...the cheekiness....your either born with sex appeal or your not.....and watching all the lean girls at work, they all have hangups like the bigger girls, because there is always someone smaller or bigger breasted. so they are never happy with there package either...if anything the sex industry has given me confidence to like me as me.....and that men do like the personality...god i wish i was a kylie minogue look alike, the ultimate males fantasy, tiny, petite, almost child like....but im not...and i hear shes always wanted to be tall....
We all want what we dont have....
including BRAD PITT + ANGELINA JOLIE....
:):):)
 
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cutensexy

why is it lickedy that EVERY girl luuuuuurvs angelina!!!!!! (me included of course) is it the sex appeal, man eater thing, the lips maybe!!!!! as for brad i would much rather have......JOHNNY DEPP!!!!!!! woohoo
 
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lickedysplit

im with ya cute...johny depp is mysteriously sexy, but tooo deep for me..its the lips and the eyes......you could imagine her going off....and the lips are REAL......hope they hook up straight away...brad and angie...the way it is meant to be....


hang on brad and split....but he is otherwise pre occupied...i forgot to return his call....
keep dreaming
 
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cutensexy

having the same problem here....johnny not speaking to me at the moment for talking to some other guy in the shops!!!!!! go figure!!!! men lol
 
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lickedysplit

rofl..he will get over it!!! there is no -one like you cutee
 
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lickedysplit

my motto girlfriend....if you cant be good.....be funny...
its seen me through the years.....incompetence is alot easier to accept with a giggle
 
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Mary Anne PA

who's angelina Jolie????
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:iamwithst
 
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cutensexy

????????????????? Billy Bob Thorntons ex wife.....Tomb Raider.....Brad Pitts new squeeze......Olivier Martinez old squeeze!!.....in heaps of movies
 
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lickedysplit

the aid ambassador thingy person.....that hotty...dont worry serps..trust me you'd want her too....i might share but it depends what is in it for me...
 
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cutensexy

ooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh!...............not sure about the sharing thingy.....oh alright then! girls gotta do what a girls gotta do!
 
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perth_lush

First of all Serena, 'What were you thinking???' Angelia Jolie - Goddess, possibly one of the finest women to have ever graced this lovely continent of ours!!! Must agree with Splitt & Cutensexy!!! I would love to come home and find her on the end of me bed with a big red bow tied to her waist!!!!

Anyways, my version of the original question...

When I met my partner I was a professional dancer therefore, was a perfect size six! Unfortunately when my career in dancing ceased I put on a few kilos and am now a set size 8 - 10. (Depending on label, etc.) Recently he made a comment I should lose some excess kilos and become the perfect size six I was when we met. Fair call I guess, it would make me happy too... (In all honesty - only because of public perception, and yes this is one of my personal downfalls)

My one and only question to myself was when we are in the middle of heated passion and he takes my hips and passionately throws me over.... what is he going to grab when it's gone!! When I was a perfect size 6 he did make many a comment of how many bones I had... now he enjoys my slight curves... Go figure??

Truth be know I'm sure some men don't know what they want, nor what they are looking for??

Oh and yes I have stayed the same size & weight and no, this comment has never risen again!

Lush xx
 
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mikayla

Lush im rite there with serena on this one.... U have ur curves in all the rite places!!!

As to the original question i for one prefer to play with a body that when you get into the rumble and tumble you dont find urself wondering if that hip bone that is digging into your leg is going leave a bruise, or if you throw your play pal around (in an erotic way) or roll on her are you going to brake something.

"GO THE CUDDLY CURVY WOMEN"
 
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perth_lush

Spanks Girls...

Thankyou ladies,

I do appreciate your kind words!!! But don't get me wrong I love who I am and how I look!!! Trust me, I KNOW I am PERFECT!!!! I can't help it! It's all natural....

Lush xx
 
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