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Friendships

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hilly

How do real true friendships start-?

Is it a word someone says-or not say-?

Something to think about-?

So come on tell us dont be shy as to

what you think starts them off-?

maybe its just a smile or a wink-?

------hilly-----
 
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Oscar

Hiya Hilly,Good question mate! Chemistry,A look, A touch,A feeling?? I think in the long run friendship comes from being comfortable with the other party.I think? They do seem to just blossom sometimes!
 
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DnSPerth

Friendship

I have thought about this for a while and I think that a friend is someone you want to tell things to, maybe because something really good happened to you. Or because something really traumatic has happened. Whatever it is, the reason you want to tell them is because they care. And to me that is what the real essence of friendship is, that special person you go to because they are truly interested in how you are and what is happening in your life, no matter how big or small. This is the kind of friend I try to be to everyone I know. And remember people, what goes around, comes around.

:cya: S
 
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cli-max

Are you talking about OUR friendship HillY? :love76: ha ha ha

Well, how did OUR friendship start - mate?

Within 15 minutes of meeting you, i felt like i had always known you. What you see is what you get, with you.
I felt comfortable around you. Your conversation was interesting to me, and i was inspired by how much you've learned in your lifetime - self taught.

And, i was inspired by how much you've endured in your lifetime, how brave you've been through it all, and how giving you are of yourself.

And, you're good for a laugh! :happy4:

Love, always my friend. xx
 
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hilly

Im No Angel

Im no angel but i know someone that is.

No I was not asking how we became friends cli-max.
and as for been good for a laugh thank you my friend
for a good Belly laugh is better than see-ing any doctor.

I was just asking as to others and what they think
got them started being true friends.
I can count on my right hand how many real true friends
that I have and trust with anything, and that is over many years.
see-ing I have only four and 1/2 fingers on that hand--lol.

But i did met someone very special from just a phone call
something in her voice that got me to take that 40 mins-drive
and without me saying a word she opened the door with a smile
and said !! HILLY!! ( nod) with that she gave me a hug--hummm.
we just clicked not many can do that.
had that coffee and talked-and talked laughed-laughed-talked
all night long could not beleave when she said its daylight--
not only was it daylight damm near lunch time--lol--
That is how one true real friend started and I know it will go on
for all she has to do is ask and ill be there for her.
That is what I think true friends should do for each other.
-------------------------hilly-------------------------
 

waxenboy

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I have two great friends one i respect both of these people.I have other friends but these two people are so close to my heart ive never felt anything like this about two people they remind me of my family that is how i feel.They are both close to me but one is a bit closer to me in my heart aswell.They both look out for me.I know other people look out for me aswell it is hard to explain.I try to look out for them aswell.

You know what ive met these two people at lp's :hello:
 
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burgandy

When a true friendship turns false.

I have only a few true friends. I too can count them on one hand, but what happens when what you thought was a true friendship turns false? When that person starts telling lies or omitting the truth? Why would a true friend do that? Is it that this friend has changed (as we all do through our lives) and no longer feels that being true to you is worthwhile? Is it that when it comes down to it your friendship is not as important as the need to be centre of attention? Is there an element of jealously? Or is it that the person you were led to believe they were was a lie to start with? What is the test of a true friend?

Tas aka Burgandy

:iamwithst
 
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cli-max

It IS sad when that happens Burgandy :tearyeyed

It can make you distrust others - if you let it, unfortunately. :nono:
It all comes down to the test of time i guess.
It could be because of any one of the reasons you named. :dontknow:

Try to move on from this 'friends' betrayal, he/she isn't worthy of your friendship. :violent4:
 
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hilly

well dear burgandy,
we could all write a book on
how to test a true friendship
and not be right--but with me
I can put it into one word
and that is--TRUST--
---hilly---
 
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cli-max

Adding..................

Adding to my reply, now that i've thought about it more.......

When we meet people, first impression can either attract - or not ( looks aside ) A good example of the type of FRIEND a person could be, is the example that person has set: What is their track record, did you meet this person through long term friends - that KNOW what their personality is really like, are they close to their family, do you detect bitterness or sarcasm in their voice in conversation - a put off right from the start. ( a leopard does not change its spots )

Obviously you don't bring out your file, to do a questionnaire on people you meet :read2: And it's a shame we can't take people at face value IF we intend to share personal space, or confide in them as we would a friend.

But, you don't MEET 'friends'
They are an aquaitance long before friendship forms. HOW long? Til you're confident enough in your judgement. What's the rush!

If you were wrong in your judgement, learn from it, get over it and take it for what it is - one of lifes little lessons, they weren't worthy! :sign5:

Stay true to yourself and live/love life to the max! :wav:
 
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hilly

popping up

well this friend is allways popping up behind me -LOL.

well now i got her in between me--lol
but then what are friends for allways bouncing around ,
:icon_boun maybe i should tie her to one spot,
nhaaa that not work she like to fly low and bop you from above.
---lol--lol--hilly. :angel1:
 
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cli-max

Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha

You crack me up Gordie, you know women - ya didn't think you were going to have the last say - surely

Tie me down? HA HA HA HA :-X

Oops, we gotta stop this meeting in public places babe, Serena's already on to us.
 
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hilly

yep

Yep right once more girl-friend-lol. :angel1:

On last word from woman as one
little old lady left this last cancer retreat
after all the goodbye,s hugs & smiles
She left this note in my humpy.

This is what she wrote.

Hilly-Hilly-the man that can fix it all
You can mend it no matter big or small.
As you goes from job to job
And not even take a bob.

We don,t know how you are surviving
with doc-Ivy allways telephoning.
Come Eat Your Veg And Salad Too
Or You"ll Be Getting Yourself In The Stew.

That last -WORD-she got it IN.--lol-lol-- :headbang:
----hilly----
 
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summer

summer

I go by eye's a lot in a person,if eye's have wamth coming from them that mean's alot to me!You can see a nice looking person,but if they have cold eye's it always make's me back off!I go by a lot of my intuition,and if I have a bad gut feeling about them,I will always stay a distance.Maybe people may think I am being judge-mental,but I do try not to judge a book from the cover until I get to know the inside!I guess it's something that I have always done,gone for eye's!but mainly a smile work's for me,expecially if it is genuine,and body language,then how you feel around the person,with me I love a mental connection there two!But I have only one best mate,she is the one who get's on the phone ring's me ask's how I'm going and viser,verser!I believe friendship's are not taker's but based on both,giving out,putting in and receiving,you can have people you chase after,and jump when they need,but do you receive that also?It is great to be a loving person and treat people the way you would like to be treated,but then you have to understand the differance of being taken for a ride,or being loved and appreciation of what you do.
Summer.xx
 
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hilly

love it

Hello.and still going love it
I did not think this thread would last this long
it has got a lot thinking about true friendships

love the way you think Summer

for I also go for the eyes-they tell it all
Body language can be a put on
but the eyes never lie.
most of my friends believe i give to much
but thats just me -i also know what it like
to taken for a ride--I can take that as long as
it dont hurt the ones I love--Then LOOK OUT.
I"LL go out that way i guess even asking the
guy who digs the hole for me if he wants a hand.
lol--hilly-- not done yet girl-friend. :headbang:
 
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hilly

its raining

Here she is again with the window open
dont you know it raining outside,
sitting there gaze-ing out the open window
here come dry your face and comb your hair
before you catch a cold,
now off to bed you need you your rest
so in the morning you look your best
:angel1: --hilly--lol
 
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cli-max

But...................

I LOVE the rain, an' I wanna........................PLAY :blob3: :blob5: :blob6:
:angel1:
 
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hilly

Hummm

:angel1:

But Babe you did all the playing last
night and wore yourself out and your
Legs are 2 ins shorter from all the
running you did.
well was only behind a little tree
had to have a little wee rest.
---LOL :nono: ---hilly---
 
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hilly

DONT LAUGH-----please--

:angel1:

what was the last thing said
as i was leaving last night--shhhhhh.
if you have to please not so loud-
you might fall off your chair ,
wee little hilly i felt this small *
and you didn"t need to put blush on
for i was red as a post box as tryed to
think what to do or say for that matter.
a very red hilly,
 
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cli-max

ha ha ha ha ha

Did the boys in blue dob on me - for callin' them and dobbing you in? :police:

What i wouldn't have given to have seen that! :blob6:
xx :angel1:
 
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hilly

thank-god

:angel1:

all i can say to that is THank god
if you had been there you would
have Laughed me right into jail
but with some very fast thinking
got out of it---talking with hands
said I was dumb--he wrote a note
just blow in the tube love
cheeky bugger as i was trying to pull
that little dress down over the stocking tops.
Dear-dear me --ha ha but not Funny for me at the time -bet on it
my face was burning red as i SLOWLY drove down the road.
---hilly---
 
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cli-max

Yeah, we WOULD have laughed you right into jail babe, BUT we would have baked ya a cake - with a file in it :laughing1 :laughing3 :laughing5

It's a wonder they didn't ask ya for ........................favours

Bless your cotton socks Hilly, you're a crack up babe
xx :angel1:
 
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hilly

cop buster

:angel1:

My god you not going let me live this one down are you :3some:
if you had of brought a cake in they would of eaten
it and given me the file--lol
---hilly---
 
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